What a girl wish for does not means what a girl need. I came across this story and I stop wishing for a boy friend. The story goes something like this:
This girl name *G* has her 1st boy friend and it was *A*. He so nice to *G*. He doesn mind showing *G* to his friends and family. I do not know how to describe about *A*, but I can tell you *G* have been admiring him for sometimes until she realized that she just like his personality but not really fall in love with him. Seriously he is such a fine young man. Too bad that he is not *G* type. She want someone that is mature and could lead her, but not *G* lead the way. Being with *A*, *G* is the mature one. She does all the talking and they barely have any topics to start their conversation. So *G* wish for someone with a sweet mouth, at least they have something to talk about.
Yes, *G* wish come true again. She met a guy, *B* which happen to be her neighbor. According to *B*, he had been noticing her for months and wanted to date her but do not have the guts. So they went for their first date and it went according to *G* wish. Their relationship improve so fast that *G* don even believe that they had just know each other for 1 week and only went for few dates. *B* is the perfect guy. He cooks, he do house core, he loves *G* so much. He sends her 12 roses every morning attached with a card writing a beautiful sentence. They like the same songs, food and everything. He even talks about his feelings which guys will never do that to their girl friend. He is really a super perfect guy. Not long later, *G* realized *B* is just too perfect for her. She does not deserve such a perfect guy. And she does not need a perfect guy.
Not long later after breaking up with *B*, *G* meet another guy, *C*. *C* is *G* brother house-mate. Although he is not perfect, but *G* feels a very happy with *C* and she can show the real self to *C*. She does not have to do glossy hair, thick make-up, pretend to be perfect as well?.etc. The best thing is, *C* only read sports section and *G* only read fashion section for the news paper; *C* only eat red, brown and yellow M&Ms and *G* only eats blue and green. Individually, they may not be perfect, but when they are attached to each other, they made up a perfect couple. Most importantly, she did not wish for *C*.
Conclusion of the story is be careful what you wish for. What you wish for may not be what you really need. I have been doing a lot of wishing. Not true to say my wish does not come true, but it comes with a negative externalities. I have been wishing for a good result so that I could apply to the college that I want, and yes, I went into Taylor but I not really satisfied with my result. I wish that I could lose weight, I did, but I went to celebrate for it and end up gaining more. To cut straight into the main point, I wish for a relationship and I end the relationship when every one thinks that he his perfect. I did not break up because of the story above but because I realized I do not need a boyfriend now. I may not wish for any thing big now. I might only wish for something foolish and world peace.
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