Just Friend

I've read this book call 'Just Friend'.

I've watch this good movie call 'Just Friend'.

Although both medium with the same title has totally different story plot, but the message sent is the same.

Ie, best friend/good friend/close friend always end up to be your soul mate.

However, I read this biography of someone, he once said, being a good friend can never emerge out of the friend zone and be the soul mate. I wholly agree with him. Knowing someone too well diminished all the surprises one will get; Knowing someone too well caused awkwardness; And most of all, knowing someone too well, white lies/compliment/sweet talk never works.

Personally, I will not want to have my best/close/good friend to be my significant other half. 

I strongly believe that encountering someone that wanting to know you and date you is the essence of meeting someone right. Only realizing that you had fall for someone after knowing him/her for a century, is idiotic. 

Some real life examples, LK, LM and myself.

LK and Peter met at a friend's party. From the very first day he contacted LK, he drew the line and giving hint that he wanted to date her. Look how everything turns out. Happily married and expecting.

LM. Knowing him too well end up knowing all his stuff including something she shouldn't know.

Myself. I got so freaking boring when I'm with him. There are nothing for me to find out. There are nothing to talk to him because I know almost everything as he does.

So, I hereby conclude, significant other half will appear as a stranger when you first met him and eventually, with the help of fate, he will make an effort to be your significant other half.


 Nichole